Reply to Seema, a SSB devotee
Posted: Wednesday July 23, 2003
Author: Barry Pittard
Reference: Seema's email To:
Barry Pittard
Sent: Tuesday, July 15, 2003 4:51 AM
Note: If activists in the Sathya Sai Baba
Exposé were to do other than note receipt of emails from antagonistic
SSB devoees and say a polite 'thank you,' the task would go on forever.
However, sometimes there is a case when one senses in a writer a good
spirit hidden behind the outer antagonism, and that the points raised
merit as thoughtful a reply as one can give.
Barry
----- Original Message -----
From: XXX
Sent: Tuesday, July 15, 2003 4:51 AM
Subject: Re: THE BUGGY ONE
Dear Mr.Pittard,
I would really appreciate it if you can
erase my e-mail address from your little black book.You see I am a
very successful, very educated, very spiritual, very fortunate, very
happily married woman with two very brilliant, gorgeous children. In
other words I have nobody to be envious or jealous of.Life for me is
wonderful beyond and each day I awake I pray and thank all the highly
enlightened masters of the world who came on this earth to teach
people how to love love and love one another.Yes I even thank your
favourite topic Sai Baba! I do not know you but what I do know is that
I love you because love is all that I have in my being and this love
really flows like an ocean.Please think of this quote which I now
leave with you." Your vision of this world is really an image of
yourself." Have a nice day in peace and love.
Yours truly,
Sarah.
Barry's answer to Seema:
Dear Seema,
Why do you refer to my 'little black book'?
If it is black, then black is beautiful. It is full of the names of
light-filled former Sathya Sai devotees all round the world, who are
typically persons of the utmost integrity and love. With those same
qualities in mind, I shall of course erase your name from my list,
which relates to letters you wrote - full of unkind and untrue remarks
- to my noble friend Glen Meloy (both of us having had over
twenty-five years of intense and committed devotion to SSB).
Even though Glen has effectively moved on
to other areas of endeavour, he wrote you - despite your letter that
rudely and unjustly charges him (who you do not even know him) with "pettiness"
and being one of those, along with all JuST Petition signatories,
whose "lives are filled with pain and misery because of the lies that
they have told about Sathys Sai Baba."
In his typically loving, courteous fashion,
Glen wrote you back, also saying that he would refer your query to
others who are co-ordinating the exposure of the allegations against
Sathya Sai Baba.
Because Glen had referred your query to
me, and despite an extremely hectic schedule, I wrote you a polite and
I think thoughtful letter in regard to your letter to Glen. You have
not given a specific reply to any one of the points made.
You see I am a very
successful, very educated, very spiritual, very fortunate, very
happily married woman with two very brilliant, gorgeous children
There are many former devotees who can
equally claim happiness. There are also men and women who are happy
without job 'success,' 'brilliant children,' etc. What is the
relevance of mentioning all this? Why do you feel the need to mention to
me, an entire stranger to you, this long succession of 'very's'?
Why am I so suddenly reminded of Queen
Gertrude in Shakespeare's Hamlet, as she watches the
play-within-a-play, uttering: 'The lady doth protest too much,
methinks.'?
I have nobody to be
envious or jealous of
Why do you introduce this notion of envy
or jealousy? By any chance, are you attributing envy or jealousy as a
motivation for our dissent against Sathya Sai Baba?
Do you really think that former devotees,
so many of whom were for such long years held in the highest regard by
their fellow Sathya Sai devotees, people from so many professions,
trades and cultures, would act out of any the base qualities you
mention?
Why do you think so many former devotees
have raised the most serious questions about another, and hidden, side
to Sathya Sai Baba than the one you have in mind, and gone to their
national governments, police agencies and quality media such as The
Times of London about these matters?
Is it not the absolute responsibility of
any citizen to report seriously made allegations of paedophilia?
What would you have us do - cover up?
Stifle our consciences?
Life for me is
wonderful beyond and each day I awake I pray and thank all the highly
enlightened masters of the world who came on this earth to teach
people how to love love and love one another
Were any of the 'highly enlightened
masters' you have in mind accused by large numbers of young males and
in many cases their supportive families and friends all round the
world of sexual abuse? Sathya Sai Baba is thus accused. Will you have
us shut up, and deny all these boys and young men, and their families,
a voice?
In answering such questions, I trust that
you will have in mind that he, his Central Trust, and the leaders of
his world organisation all refuse to show a jot of compassion or duty
of care to the great many responsible persons - who were once, like
you, full of love for and belief in Sathya Sai Baba - who call for a
properly conducted government and police enquiry into the countless
allegations. In fact, some of the foremost of your Sathya Sai leaders
threaten litigation on a large scale, and knowingly speak untruth
about those they have, for years, known to be men and women of truth.
Do you mean to imply that life for
dissenters of Sathya Sai Baba cannot be wonderful, prayerful and
thankful?
Please think of this
quote which I now leave with you. 'Your vision of this world is really
an image of yourself.'
Central to my vision of this world is a
saying of Jesus: 'Suffer the little children and forbid them not, for
of such is the kingdom of heaven.' He also had some tough words to
say for those who hurt 'one of these, my little children.'
You see, Seema, when we allow our 'very
brilliant, gorgeous children' to be molested, and fail to protect them,
and cry out with a voice that they themselves usually cannot be
expected to raise, there can be no heaven in our vision, and no true
wisdom, happiness or peace in the heart of any being - no matter the
level of education or marital or family happiness, which are never so
stable as a conscience that outlast what Lord Hamlet called the 'slings
and arrows of outrageous fortune.'
I trust you will do some honest and
commonsense thinking about the questions I have put to you. Only
specific answers will do - not racing off into states of euphoric
denial and lack of respect for truthful men, women and children -
about whose case, it is the fact, you have made profoundly unjust
assumptions.
I shall take it as a mark of your being,
as you say, "very educated" if you can truthfully and without
emotional evasiveness answer the questions I have asked of you.
Love to you and all,
Barry Pittard, Australia